Archive for February, 2012

The Relationship Artist – Loving in the Now

What do I mean? That you should concentrate on the “moment” in your relationship. Sometimes people put too much pressure on the future when thinking about their love life. I’ve done it and I know you have to.

* Wondering if the relationship will last.
* Will the relationship still be fun?
* Will I still enjoy sex with this person?
* What will our children look like?
* Will I have enough money?
* Will she end up liking one of my friends better?

Sometimes people like to dwell on the past.

* I wonder if he will break my heart like the last guy?
* Maybe I shouldn’t have met him online. He might be a geek.
* My friend says he has had a lot of woman in his past.
* “I’m not ready yet.” (Hint: You’ll never be ready!)
* I’m tired of it never working out.
* She looks like my ex.

You need to relax.

Making sure that at this very moment you are content, will bring peace of mind to your future. Each moment your relationship is the best it can be RIGHT NOW, you are building the perfect future together. You don’t have to plan for anything! Just like in physics, the momentum is built when you create the energy now. When you can say:

* “I’m content right now.”
* “I’m in love right now.”
* “We are happy together at this moment”
* “I am having fun now”
* “I love myself right now”
* “This feels like the best moment of my life”

…you are creating the perfect future together. False expectations are what ruins relationships. Love doesn’t fail all by itself…one of the two of you stops enjoying the moment. And pressure of the past or future starts to creep in to take it’s toll. The past is gone. There is nothing you can do about it. The future will be what it is. You have very little control of it. What you do have control of is this moment. It’s yours and nobody else’s. To create a positive future, start living love in the now.

How do you create an everlasting quality for your relationship today?

For nearly 20 years one man, Colin Martin, has searched for and found the number one secret to building an exceptional romantic relationship. The answer doesn’t lie in the endless volumes of self help books and repetative talk shows ….but within yourself!

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Online Dating – Tips for Sending a Hello Email

The modern dating world is improved significantly thanks to technology. You can now actually meet a great person to get into a relationship with over the internet. Without the boundaries of geography, there is now a higher chance of finding somebody you are interested in that complements your personality as well as share in some of your interests. You can join many online dating services in order to maximize the chances of actually finding the kind of person you want. When you do find somebody you like, the first thing you need to do is to send a “hello email”. A hello email basically lets you introduce yourself to the person you are interested to meet online. In order to help you write a good hello email, here are some useful tips.

Go straight to the point - the main purpose of a hello email is to introduce yourself and to make a good impression. This is why it is highly recommended that you should just go straight to the point in order to avoid any misconceptions or misunderstandings. Don’t try to use any lines. Just be yourself and be straightforward. Just say that you saw her profile and that you are interested to get to know more about her. Adopt a nice tone. Don’t beat around the bush.

Ask a few questions - in order to show that you are interested in her right from the start, try to ask her one or two questions about herself that she also mentioned in her online profile. If she mentions that she likes dogs, you can ask her if she currently owns a dog and what is the name of the dog. Asking questions establishes that you sincerely are interested in her.

Provide important details about yourself – in order to alleviate any worries on her part, you should mention some details about yourself in your hello email. In the online world, the standing rule is that you should give your ASL right away. This will prevent you from wasting any more time than you have to. ASL means age, sex and location. Aside from your ASL, you should also mention your job as well as a few of your likes and dislikes. If you want details about her, you should first provide details about yourself.

Don’t forget your contact details - if the person you sent your hello email to is interested to pursue an online dating relationship with you, you must indicate your contact details in the message. This way she can contact you if she finally decides to meet with you online.

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